Ngaba Imitshato Evulelekileyo Iyasebenza?

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Ekupheleni kophando lwam, ndakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umtshato ovulekileyo sisizathu nje sokuziphatha ngokuzingca nokungakhathali. Kwincwadi yam Prince Harming Syndrome , nayiphi na indoda efuna umtshato ovulekileyo yinto endiyibiza ngokuba yiNkosana Yokulimaza. INkosana Harming ngumntu ongenzi iqabane lakhe lizive likhuselekile, lizolile, likhuselekile, liqinisekile—kwaye ingcamango yomtshato ovulelekileyo ayindishiyi ndivakalelwa ngolo hlobo.

Ukuthandana kukwenza uninzi lweenketho zakho. Umtshato ngowokukhulisa umanyano olumangalisayo oye waba nethamsanqa lokulufumana ukuze ukhule ube yinto emangalisayo ngokumangalisayo.

Kwabanzima ngokumangalisayo ukufumana izibalo zokuba imitshato evulelekileyo iyasebenza na. Okuxakayo kukuba, umtshato ovulelekileyo asiyonto sithetha ngayo ngokuphandle. Olunye uphando lubonisa ukuba umtshato ovulelekileyo unomlinganiselo wama-92 ekhulwini ongaphumeleliyo. USteve Brody, PhD, isazi ngengqondo eCambria, eKhalifoniya, ucacisa ukuba bangaphantsi kwe-1 ekhulwini abantu abatshatileyo abakwimitshato evulelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kubonakala ngathi yindlela yokunyuka. Iisayithi ezininzi zokuthandana kwi-intanethi zinika abafaki-zicelo ibhokisi entsha yokukhangela-batshatile.

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UKaren Salmansohn ngumbhali othengisa kakhulu owaziwa ngokudala ukuzinceda kwabantu abangazukubanjwa befile befunda ukuzinceda. Fumana ulwazi oluthe kratya malunga nokufumana ubudlelwane obunothando obungapheliyo-emva kwencwadi yakhe Prince Harming Syndrome .

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